As the Backpage fiasco continues I am finding it necessary to institute some new policies effective immediately within the Southeastern US market. I am still only VERY selectively taking new clients and my screening process will weed out any creeps. I hate to sound so bitchy about this, but I am truly at my wit's end. I have had people try to lie and make up fake information in just about every way possible at this point. I completely understand that clients are hesitant and trying to stay as low key as possible when exploring and playing in this hobby. I have always said that discretion is my job more than anything else. I also have a very normal life that would also be tarnished were this aspect of my life to be exposed. I have just as much to lose as any of you. One does not build a good reputation over a few years' time being indiscreet. I suggest that those who want to be considered as a client play by my rules instead of trying to usurp my screening process, otherwise you come off as a complete creep whom I would NEVER consider seeing. I am a 135 lb woman. You aren't the vulnerable one here in terms of physical safety. Respect that or don't waste your time (or mine) contacting me. The new rules (and some that have always been in place) are as follows:
*Absolutely NO African American, Indian, or Asian NEW clients (exceptions may be made for military personnel based upon proof of military ID)
*Screening with REPUTABLE references is required OR there are a variety of other screening options available. Be aware that this does require disclosing some personally identifying information. Again, discretion is of the utmost importance to me. I do not retain your information for any purpose. It is only used to verify that you are who you say you are and someone is far less likely to do me harm if they know that I know their actual name. I will NOT put myself at any risk of physical harm, sexual abuse, robbery, etc. Please be aware that MOST Backpage providers are NOT reputatble references and most will be refused
*I will not respond to texts that are not professional (ie: Emma?/Is this Emma?/Donation?/Are you available? (mostly because it means you have fully read NONE of my ads that indicate same day appointments are not possible)/ Hey baby, sweetie, sexy, etc/ Do you travel to X? (Send an email, but the answer is NO at this time)....and the list goes on. Treat me like a human being and you will be rewarded in kind.
I have more to say but not enough time at the present moment. I hope to get back to this later this evening or tomorrow.
As always, my clients are perfect gentlemen and I would like to keep it that way! Thank you for reading and let's hope spring gets here soon!
xxxo,
Emma
carolinagfe@gmail.com
300/hr
400/90 min
500/2 hrs
*No outcalls/no same day appointments (the only small possibility for this is on Thursdays and Fridays, but this is dependent on my ability to quickly screen you if you are a new client)
*I will FINALLY be getting a new car soon and hope to begin touring a bit and cutting back on my Columbia availability.