Until something changes with all of this Backpage nonsense and it overflowing creeps on to me and other high end ladies, I am unlikely to take any new client requests. I'm not even going to get into how bad and obnoxious communications have gotten as a result of this problem because this would turn into a pages-long rant. I also (finally!) upgraded my phone, but lost all of my messages and contacts in the process. If you text me, please just include your name and email (if applicable) so I know who is trying to reach me. I don't generally respond to texts unless I know who is texting me as text is pretty much the worst way to do any of this.
Just a reminder and due to various issues, Usasexguide is NOT an appropriate venue to post about me. It is far too public and seemingly attracts those who favor cheap, completely anonymous (Ie; no screening), qv/hh hookups. That is not me. I wish to restrict no one's right to free speech, I only wish to cater to a certain market. BP and USASG are not that market. Some of you may use it as as research tool in conjunction with other sites. That's completely fine with me. I only take issue when someone puts me in a position where I have to weed through even more creeps than usual by bringing me to the attention of the wrong market.
xxxo,
Emma
Thursday, January 11, 2018
Wednesday, December 27, 2017
Its almost 2018! Last Week of December/First Week of January Availability!!!
Thanks so much for stopping by my page and I hope everyone had a lovely holiday! I’m super excited for the new year and everything 2018 has to bring. While we’re waiting for 2018 to get here I will be available for appointments :-)
Please email me at carolinagfe@gmail.com to set up an appointment or call me at 803-459-4420!
300/hr
400/90 min
500/2 hrs
I would love to see you!! :-)
A couple quick notes on some things I’ve been noticing lately...
It would seem that Backpage is on its way out the door and some hobbyists are freaking out. Unfortunately many of them aren’t understanding that I’m not and never was a Backpage girl and I’m getting a lot of inquires that just abruptly end when I mention screening. I’ve also had an influx of texts saying things like, “hey” “hey sweetheart/baby” “Emma” “Emma?” “What are your rates” “Donation?”....and it gets worse. While I know those of you who are reading here are not the problem, I feel it necessary to share my perspective on this. The texts bother me because all the initial communications and much of the back end of this is basic business. I like to be approached in a manner that doesn't make me feel like a chatline. These are the types of things that make me wish that the US would knock it off with the Puritanical values and just legalize and regulate the oldest profession already!! That way more people would be aware of how to navigate this wide world of hobby fun among many other things. I could write a whole dissertation on why this should be legalized lol, I'll try to condense it into a blog post sometime. Anyway, texts that start with any of the above will NOT be answered or acknowledged. I reserve the right to refuse any client at any time for ANY reason. That sounds harsh, but while most of you are perfect gentlemen, some of you cannot handle themselves even a little bit. Those are the people I like to avoid. Generally I can tell what's what from how a person approaches me electronically, but I'm vaguely annoyed that the BP loyalists seem to be trying to branch out to an arena that they aren't prepared to be in. These are guys used to QVs and paying the least for the most. GROSS! Not the type of client I want to see. I make no judgements on people's proclivities (unless children or animals or non-consenting parties are involved) BUT I don't want to see a client who's been seeing lots of BP girls for less than $100. Its all about tiers/classes of providers and hobbyists. Hopefully the BP refugees will find a forever home soon and this will no longer be an issue! That's enough ranting for now...I hope you all have a great week!
xxxo,
Emma
carolinagfe@gmail.com
803-459-4420
Side Note-- Seems completely random, I know, but there is in fact a purpose other than wasteful consumerism! I am collecting some cute little toys and would LOVE LOVE LOVE it if any of you would keep an eye out at Wal-Mart, Target, K-Mart, and Toys R Us for these things in particular:
Nom Num's Snackables
Nom Num's
Smooshy Mushy toys (Besties or the Bento Boxes in particular, there are three currently)
Squishy Food Toys (Various brands, the more uniquely shaped the better!)
Here's a screenshot from Amazon of the ones I want most. Its a two pack of the Nom Num's Snackables. Its around $30 online currently, but much much cheaper in stores (if you can find them lol). All the other stuff is $1-14.99 and can be found in the toy isles near the girl's toys. I'm also really into the blind bag/box things you can find for a couple dollars since you can find some really cool collectibles to resell in them. Certainly not expected, but if anyone feels like making me smile this is the way to go!
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| Squishy Food! (Can find cheaper ones of the same brand at Walmart and Target. I already have this pie one and some other cool ones, but would love some super unique/weird ones.) |
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| Nom Num's Snackables (These are the ones I REALLLLLLLLY want) |
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| Smushy Mushy Bento Boxes (I'm missing the fox!) |
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| Some more Smushy Mushy :-) |
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| I LOVE these! I think they might only be at Walmart. Its all blind bags of different shaped squishy foods. Same as photo below. |
Sunday, December 17, 2017
December Availablity
Thanks so much for stopping by my site :-) Happy holidays and Merry Christmas to all!
I will have more availability than I generally due since I am on winter break, so I look forward to meeting with some existing and new friends!
Please email me at carolinagfe@gmail.com (preferred) to set up an appointment or text/call 803-459-4420. I do require screening which has seemed to come as a surprise to many of those who have inquired lately. I'm not sure if this is a result of the imminent downfall of BP or what, but its annoying lol. I am a higher end provider and screening is for safety purposes. I will likely sit down and write a blog post about a few different subjects, one of them being screening and why its important.
Anyway, I am very much looking forward to the Christmas season and the new year. Come celebrate with me and treat yourself to some pampering and relaxation as a gift to yourself. You deserve it!
1 hour-----300
90 minutes----400
2 hours-----500
xxxo,
Emma
carolinagfe@gmail.com
803-459-4420
I will have more availability than I generally due since I am on winter break, so I look forward to meeting with some existing and new friends!
Please email me at carolinagfe@gmail.com (preferred) to set up an appointment or text/call 803-459-4420. I do require screening which has seemed to come as a surprise to many of those who have inquired lately. I'm not sure if this is a result of the imminent downfall of BP or what, but its annoying lol. I am a higher end provider and screening is for safety purposes. I will likely sit down and write a blog post about a few different subjects, one of them being screening and why its important.
Anyway, I am very much looking forward to the Christmas season and the new year. Come celebrate with me and treat yourself to some pampering and relaxation as a gift to yourself. You deserve it!
1 hour-----300
90 minutes----400
2 hours-----500
xxxo,
Emma
carolinagfe@gmail.com
803-459-4420
Wednesday, November 22, 2017
Happy Thanksgiving!
Hey Guys!
Happy Turkey Day! I will have availability this Friday 11/24 as well as Saturday 11/25. Come see me for some post-holiday relaxation while everyone else is out shopping! Send me an email at carolinagfe@gmail.com to schedule as I will be unable to return calls and texts until Friday. I look forward to seeing some of you soon!
xxxo,
Emma
carolinagfe@gmail.com
803-459-4420
1 hour----300
90 mins---400
2 hours---500
*Screening required for all new clients
New pics coming soon!
Happy Turkey Day! I will have availability this Friday 11/24 as well as Saturday 11/25. Come see me for some post-holiday relaxation while everyone else is out shopping! Send me an email at carolinagfe@gmail.com to schedule as I will be unable to return calls and texts until Friday. I look forward to seeing some of you soon!
xxxo,
Emma
carolinagfe@gmail.com
803-459-4420
1 hour----300
90 mins---400
2 hours---500
*Screening required for all new clients
New pics coming soon!
Thursday, November 2, 2017
Some thoughts, some rants, some info...
Hey Guys,
Thanks for stopping by to read :-) I felt compelled to do a special post today about a couple of things. Those of you who have met me know that I am very professional in terms of scheduling and setting up appointments. I am extremely schedule-oriented and am at my best when I have a solid plan for the day. This is why I do not take same-day appointments. While I understand that many people are more spontaneous, that's just not my style when it comes to how I run my business. I have so many other responsibilities and life-roles outside of this aspect of my life, and I have found that the best way for me to manage all that I do is to schedule, schedule, schedule and have a concrete plan. Can I generally be a little flexible? Yes. However if a client has scheduled an appointment with me on a day where I have other responsibilities I always ensure that I have some buffer time scheduled in and make it known to my client that I have to leave at a certain time.
This has never been an issue until recently. Recently I had a potential client schedule an appointment with me for 11:45am. I offered this client a 10:45am appointment, but he opted for the 11:45. No problem. I provided the proper general location information so he could make plans to account for travel times and requested that he confirm with me later that evening, as is my usual process. He failed to confirm, but I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and would continue on as scheduled. I finally heard from him the morning of the appointment to confirm and everything seemed good to go for 11:45. He proceeded to text me within 45 mins of the appointment time indicating that he was leaving and would put my address into his gps and text back with an ETA. I had no idea where he was coming from, so I assumed he'd be on time and even told him it was fine if he got here early....I receive a text that says he will be to me by 12:05. At that time I told him 12:05 was okay, but I did need to be somewhere at 1:30 and would need to leave my studio a few minutes prior to 1pm. He responded asking if I would like to see him after I took care of my other responsibilities....This is where I get upset and annoyed.
First of all, this guy had all the information he needed to plan appropriately to get to me at the scheduled time. When he failed to be able to do that, I told him that 12:05 was fine but I'd need to leave a couple minutes early. He decided to take this to mean that I was going to "rush" him. Again, anyone who has seen me knows that I do not rush. I let him know that I would appreciate it if he would keep the appointment he scheduled, especially since I agreed to 12:05. At max his poor planning would have cost him 10 mins (5 from him being 20 minutes late, 5 from me needing to leave by 1pm). He sent another text inquiring about a time for rescheduling. I replied stating that because I felt that this had become too much of a hassle that I no longer wished to see him as a client at all. He then proceeded to ask me if I was serious because he'd driven an hour to see me. First of all, he hadn't driven an hour from the time he texted he was leaving and the time he told me his eta. If he had, there never would have been an issue at all! Second, its like he expected my whole afternoon to be available for him whenever he got around to getting here for a scheduled one-hour appointment. Not to mention, he was complaining that he'd driven an hour to see me and yet he was the one wanting to change the times and reschedule. He made no sense ultimately. He wanted his cake and to eat it, too. I attempted to explain that I did not want to see someone who was already making assumptions about being rushed when he was the one that was late due to poor planning. It would be a different story if this guy had run into a bad car accident or traffic jam; those things happen. He could have prevented being late by simply gps'ing my location hours prior to our appointment, but he decided to wait until the absolute last second. He wasn't even apologetic. He was a jerk about the whole thing. I'm sometimes astounded at the miserable attitudes of some hobbyists when this is supposed to be a fun escape from everyday life. I don't understand why they participate if they are seemingly, no matter what, always unhappy about something a provider says/does or doesn't do.
The moral of the story is that I am happy to see clients who respect my time as much as I respect theirs. I am not a strung out, low-end provider. I would much rather turn down a client who I am not comfortable with than see someone who is going to be a jerk about everything. I do this work because I enjoy providing feel-good vibes and positive energy, not because I want to be treated as a lesser being because I am being paid for my companionship. Yes, I fully recognize society's general viewpoint, but I would hope that at least some of you have some slightly more evolved thinking. Again, this has never ever been an issue prior to very recently, but since it did become an issue I decided that it warranted a post here. The intent is not to call anyone out (if I was going to do something stupid like that I probably wouldn't have purposely made "potential client" totally anonymous, ha), the message is simply to treat others with the same respect that you wish to be treated with. You're nice to me and you'll have the best time ever...you're a jerk to me in any form or fashion and I will happily never see you as a client. Thank you to all of my wonderful clients who all have the modicum of respect and professionalism with regard to your communications with me! You are the best a girl could ask for :-)
Now, on to some updates and info....
I do have limited availability through the end of 2017. Please feel free to contact me via email at carolinagfe@gmail.com to set something up! If you must use text/calling, please understand that due to all of my responsibilities I am not always able to have two phones on me without raising questions. My number is 803-459-4420. I will try to get back to you, but if you don't hear back within 2 hours I promise you can reach me via email :-) I will try to get some new photos up soon. Nothing has changed in my appearance since my last photos from August, but sometimes taking new pictures is fun!
TL;DR
When/if you contact me, please be professional and please be on time for your appointment! Treat everyone in the same way in which you'd like to be treated. I do have some availability through the end of the year and I will do my best to accommodate your appointment, so please send me an email (or text/call if you must ;-) New Pics coming soon! Body rubs always available!
300/hr
400/90 min
500/120 mins
carolinagfe@gmail.com
803-459-4420
*No Same-day appointments
*No Outcall Appointments
P.S. Reference requests may not be available at this time. Send me a message prior to using me as a reference please.
Thanks for stopping by to read :-) I felt compelled to do a special post today about a couple of things. Those of you who have met me know that I am very professional in terms of scheduling and setting up appointments. I am extremely schedule-oriented and am at my best when I have a solid plan for the day. This is why I do not take same-day appointments. While I understand that many people are more spontaneous, that's just not my style when it comes to how I run my business. I have so many other responsibilities and life-roles outside of this aspect of my life, and I have found that the best way for me to manage all that I do is to schedule, schedule, schedule and have a concrete plan. Can I generally be a little flexible? Yes. However if a client has scheduled an appointment with me on a day where I have other responsibilities I always ensure that I have some buffer time scheduled in and make it known to my client that I have to leave at a certain time.
This has never been an issue until recently. Recently I had a potential client schedule an appointment with me for 11:45am. I offered this client a 10:45am appointment, but he opted for the 11:45. No problem. I provided the proper general location information so he could make plans to account for travel times and requested that he confirm with me later that evening, as is my usual process. He failed to confirm, but I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and would continue on as scheduled. I finally heard from him the morning of the appointment to confirm and everything seemed good to go for 11:45. He proceeded to text me within 45 mins of the appointment time indicating that he was leaving and would put my address into his gps and text back with an ETA. I had no idea where he was coming from, so I assumed he'd be on time and even told him it was fine if he got here early....I receive a text that says he will be to me by 12:05. At that time I told him 12:05 was okay, but I did need to be somewhere at 1:30 and would need to leave my studio a few minutes prior to 1pm. He responded asking if I would like to see him after I took care of my other responsibilities....This is where I get upset and annoyed.
First of all, this guy had all the information he needed to plan appropriately to get to me at the scheduled time. When he failed to be able to do that, I told him that 12:05 was fine but I'd need to leave a couple minutes early. He decided to take this to mean that I was going to "rush" him. Again, anyone who has seen me knows that I do not rush. I let him know that I would appreciate it if he would keep the appointment he scheduled, especially since I agreed to 12:05. At max his poor planning would have cost him 10 mins (5 from him being 20 minutes late, 5 from me needing to leave by 1pm). He sent another text inquiring about a time for rescheduling. I replied stating that because I felt that this had become too much of a hassle that I no longer wished to see him as a client at all. He then proceeded to ask me if I was serious because he'd driven an hour to see me. First of all, he hadn't driven an hour from the time he texted he was leaving and the time he told me his eta. If he had, there never would have been an issue at all! Second, its like he expected my whole afternoon to be available for him whenever he got around to getting here for a scheduled one-hour appointment. Not to mention, he was complaining that he'd driven an hour to see me and yet he was the one wanting to change the times and reschedule. He made no sense ultimately. He wanted his cake and to eat it, too. I attempted to explain that I did not want to see someone who was already making assumptions about being rushed when he was the one that was late due to poor planning. It would be a different story if this guy had run into a bad car accident or traffic jam; those things happen. He could have prevented being late by simply gps'ing my location hours prior to our appointment, but he decided to wait until the absolute last second. He wasn't even apologetic. He was a jerk about the whole thing. I'm sometimes astounded at the miserable attitudes of some hobbyists when this is supposed to be a fun escape from everyday life. I don't understand why they participate if they are seemingly, no matter what, always unhappy about something a provider says/does or doesn't do.
The moral of the story is that I am happy to see clients who respect my time as much as I respect theirs. I am not a strung out, low-end provider. I would much rather turn down a client who I am not comfortable with than see someone who is going to be a jerk about everything. I do this work because I enjoy providing feel-good vibes and positive energy, not because I want to be treated as a lesser being because I am being paid for my companionship. Yes, I fully recognize society's general viewpoint, but I would hope that at least some of you have some slightly more evolved thinking. Again, this has never ever been an issue prior to very recently, but since it did become an issue I decided that it warranted a post here. The intent is not to call anyone out (if I was going to do something stupid like that I probably wouldn't have purposely made "potential client" totally anonymous, ha), the message is simply to treat others with the same respect that you wish to be treated with. You're nice to me and you'll have the best time ever...you're a jerk to me in any form or fashion and I will happily never see you as a client. Thank you to all of my wonderful clients who all have the modicum of respect and professionalism with regard to your communications with me! You are the best a girl could ask for :-)
Now, on to some updates and info....
I do have limited availability through the end of 2017. Please feel free to contact me via email at carolinagfe@gmail.com to set something up! If you must use text/calling, please understand that due to all of my responsibilities I am not always able to have two phones on me without raising questions. My number is 803-459-4420. I will try to get back to you, but if you don't hear back within 2 hours I promise you can reach me via email :-) I will try to get some new photos up soon. Nothing has changed in my appearance since my last photos from August, but sometimes taking new pictures is fun!
TL;DR
When/if you contact me, please be professional and please be on time for your appointment! Treat everyone in the same way in which you'd like to be treated. I do have some availability through the end of the year and I will do my best to accommodate your appointment, so please send me an email (or text/call if you must ;-) New Pics coming soon! Body rubs always available!
300/hr
400/90 min
500/120 mins
carolinagfe@gmail.com
803-459-4420
*No Same-day appointments
*No Outcall Appointments
P.S. Reference requests may not be available at this time. Send me a message prior to using me as a reference please.
Tuesday, October 24, 2017
Very Limited Availability
Hi All,
Life is very busy for me these days and I have not had much time for updating this site. I do have limited availability, but please email me at carolinagfe@gmail.com if you'd like to schedule an appointment and we shall see if we can work something out :-)
xxxo,
Emma
Life is very busy for me these days and I have not had much time for updating this site. I do have limited availability, but please email me at carolinagfe@gmail.com if you'd like to schedule an appointment and we shall see if we can work something out :-)
xxxo,
Emma
Monday, August 14, 2017
Back from Vacation & Scheduling for the Rest of August!
Hi Guys,
I'm back! I apologize if any emails, calls, or texts have gone unreturned in my absence. I hope you all are having a wonderful summer! I'm currently scheduling appointments through the end of August, so please send me an email at carolinagfe@gmail.com to set up an appointment. Same-day appointments are not possible and I am a low volume provider, so my schedule does tend to fill up quickly.
1 hr-----300
90 mins-----400
2 hrs----500
I look forward to seeing some of you soon!
xxxo,
Emma
I'm back! I apologize if any emails, calls, or texts have gone unreturned in my absence. I hope you all are having a wonderful summer! I'm currently scheduling appointments through the end of August, so please send me an email at carolinagfe@gmail.com to set up an appointment. Same-day appointments are not possible and I am a low volume provider, so my schedule does tend to fill up quickly.
1 hr-----300
90 mins-----400
2 hrs----500
I look forward to seeing some of you soon!
xxxo,
Emma
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