Ad stealing and sites that are not exactly what they appear

Many of you are unaware that a lot of sites actually steal girls’ ads without their permission. Erotic Monkey, gfefiles and callgirlfiles just to name a few. Erotic Monkey goes so far as to steal reviews from TER. Some people actually do post reviews on Erotic Monkey (calling it em, yup lowercase on purpose, from here on out because they deserve no more deceitful clicks), but because it is a free and quite public (vs. paid members only) site it doesn’t always attract the most desirable clientele. I mean no offense to any who have used or will continue to use em as a resource, I am only stating facts and my personal opinion and experience as a result of those facts. Until (and maybe even after at this point) the patrons of BP figure out where to go, I’m put in an uncomfortable position. I have zero desire to see clients who are into “the bp experience.” Again, no offense is meant towards any hobbyist or provider, but I think we can all agree that bp is not Eros. Sometimes I don’t know why I bother writing this since no one who actually reads this tends to be an issue, and for that I thank you :-) Unfortunately ad stealing sites rarely include my link and the creeps I’m trying to weed out don’t seem to read or comprehend any of what my ads say, they just start texting or dialing. Its a huge bummer for me as well as being insanely obnoxious. Just wanted to make you guys aware that certain sites aren’t always what they appear to be and you should ALWAYS AlWAYS ALWAYS google a provider’s phone number. This should bring up the most pertinent available information on that provider from the most reputable sources. Also, please do not post/review me on Erotic Monkey it unfortunately contributes to the creep epidemic. Thanks for your help!

Xxxo,
Emma

NEW RULES

As the Backpage fiasco continues I am finding it necessary to institute some new policies effective immediately within the Southeastern US market. I am still only VERY selectively taking new clients and my screening process will weed out any creeps. I hate to sound so bitchy about this, but I am truly at my wit's end. I have had people try to lie and make up fake information in just about every way possible at this point. I completely understand that clients are hesitant and trying to stay as low key as possible when exploring and playing in this hobby. I have always said that discretion is my job more than anything else. I also have a very normal life that would also be tarnished were this aspect of my life to be exposed. I have just as much to lose as any of you. One does not build a good reputation over a few years' time being indiscreet. I suggest that those who want to be considered as a client play by my rules instead of trying to usurp my screening process, otherwise you come off as a complete creep whom I would NEVER consider seeing. I am a 135 lb woman. You aren't the vulnerable one here in terms of physical safety. Respect that or don't waste your time (or mine) contacting me. The new rules (and some that have always been in place) are as follows:

*Absolutely NO African American, Indian, or Asian NEW clients (exceptions may be made for military personnel based upon proof of military ID)

*Screening with REPUTABLE references is required OR there are a variety of other screening options available. Be aware that this does require disclosing some personally identifying information. Again, discretion is of the utmost importance to me. I do not retain your information for any purpose. It is only used to verify that you are who you say you are and someone is far less likely to do me harm if they know that I know their actual name. I will NOT put myself at any risk of physical harm, sexual abuse, robbery, etc. Please be aware that MOST Backpage providers are NOT reputatble references and most will be refused

*I will not respond to texts that are not professional (ie: Emma?/Is this Emma?/Donation?/Are you available? (mostly because it means you have fully read NONE of my ads that indicate same day appointments are not possible)/ Hey baby, sweetie, sexy, etc/ Do you travel to X? (Send an email, but the answer is NO at this time)....and the list goes on. Treat me like a human being and you will be rewarded in kind.

I have more to say but not enough time at the present moment. I hope to get back to this later this evening or tomorrow.

As always, my clients are perfect gentlemen and I would like to keep it that way! Thank you for reading and let's hope spring gets here soon!

xxxo,
Emma

carolinagfe@gmail.com

300/hr

400/90 min

500/2 hrs

*No outcalls/no same day appointments (the only small possibility for this is on Thursdays and Fridays, but this is dependent on my ability to quickly screen you if you are a new client)

*I will FINALLY be getting a new car soon and hope to begin touring a bit and cutting back on my Columbia availability. 

Likely Unavailable

Until something changes with all of this Backpage nonsense and it overflowing creeps on to me and other high end ladies, I am unlikely to take any new client requests. I'm not even going to get into how bad and obnoxious communications have gotten as a result of this problem because this would turn into a pages-long rant. I also (finally!) upgraded my phone, but lost all of my messages and contacts in the process. If you text me, please just include your name and email (if applicable) so I know who is trying to reach me. I don't generally respond to texts unless I know who is texting me as text is pretty much the worst way to do any of this.

Just a reminder and due to various issues, Usasexguide is NOT an appropriate venue to post about me. It is far too public and seemingly attracts those who favor cheap, completely anonymous (Ie; no screening), qv/hh hookups. That is not me. I wish to restrict no one's right to free speech, I only wish to cater to a certain market. BP and USASG are not that market. Some of you may use it as as research tool in conjunction with other sites. That's completely fine with me. I only take issue when someone puts me in a position where I have to weed through even more creeps than usual by bringing me to the attention of the wrong market.


xxxo,
Emma

Its almost 2018! Last Week of December/First Week of January Availability!!!

Hey guys!!

Thanks so much for stopping by my page and I hope everyone had a lovely holiday! I’m super excited for the new year and everything 2018 has to bring. While we’re waiting for 2018 to get here I will be available for appointments :-) 
Please email me at carolinagfe@gmail.com to set up an appointment or call me at 803-459-4420!

300/hr

400/90 min

500/2 hrs

I would love to see you!! :-)


A couple quick notes on some things I’ve been noticing lately...

It would seem that Backpage is on its way out the door and some hobbyists are freaking out. Unfortunately many of them aren’t understanding that I’m not and never was a Backpage girl and I’m getting a lot of inquires that just abruptly end when I mention screening. I’ve also had an influx of texts saying things like, “hey” “hey sweetheart/baby” “Emma” “Emma?” “What are your rates” “Donation?”....and it gets worse. While I know those of you who are reading here are not the problem, I feel it necessary to share my perspective on this. The texts bother me because all the initial communications and much of the back end of this is basic business. I like to be approached in a manner that doesn't make me feel like a chatline. These are the types of things that make me wish that the US would knock it off with the Puritanical values and just legalize and regulate the oldest profession already!! That way more people would be aware of how to navigate this wide world of hobby fun among many other things. I could write a whole dissertation on why this should be legalized lol, I'll try to condense it into a blog post sometime. Anyway, texts that start with any of the above will NOT be answered or acknowledged. I reserve the right to refuse any client at any time for ANY reason. That sounds harsh, but while most of you are perfect gentlemen, some of you cannot handle themselves even a little bit. Those are the people I like to avoid. Generally I can tell what's what from how a person approaches me electronically, but I'm vaguely annoyed that the BP loyalists seem to be trying to branch out to an arena that they aren't prepared to be in. These are guys used to QVs and paying the least for the most. GROSS! Not the type of client I want to see. I make no judgements on people's proclivities (unless children or animals or non-consenting parties are involved) BUT I don't want to see a client who's been seeing lots of BP girls for less than $100. Its all about tiers/classes of providers and hobbyists. Hopefully the BP refugees will find a forever home soon and this will no longer be an issue! That's enough ranting for now...I hope you all have a great week!

xxxo,
Emma

carolinagfe@gmail.com
803-459-4420

Side Note-- Seems completely random, I know, but there is in fact a purpose other than wasteful consumerism! I am collecting some cute little toys and would LOVE LOVE LOVE it if any of you would keep an eye out at Wal-Mart, Target, K-Mart, and Toys R Us for these things in particular:

Nom Num's Snackables
Nom Num's
Smooshy Mushy toys (Besties or the Bento Boxes in particular, there are three currently)
Squishy Food Toys (Various brands, the more uniquely shaped the better!)

Here's a screenshot from Amazon of the ones I want most. Its a two pack of the Nom Num's Snackables. Its around $30 online currently, but much much cheaper in stores (if you can find them lol). All the other stuff is $1-14.99 and can be found in the toy isles near the girl's toys. I'm also really into the blind bag/box things you can find for a couple dollars since you can find some really cool collectibles to resell in them. Certainly not expected, but if anyone feels like making me smile this is the way to go!

Squishy Food! (Can find cheaper ones of the same brand at Walmart and Target. I already have this pie one and some other cool ones, but would love some super unique/weird ones.)

Nom Num's Snackables (These are the ones I REALLLLLLLLY want)

Smushy Mushy Bento Boxes (I'm missing the fox!)

Some more Smushy Mushy :-)

I LOVE these! I think they might only be at Walmart. Its all blind bags of different shaped squishy foods. Same as photo below.

December Availablity

Thanks so much for stopping by my site :-) Happy holidays and Merry Christmas to all!

I will have more availability than I generally due since I am on winter break, so I look forward to meeting with some existing and new friends!

Please email me at carolinagfe@gmail.com (preferred) to set up an appointment or text/call 803-459-4420. I do require screening which has seemed to come as a surprise to many of those who have inquired lately. I'm not sure if this is a result of the imminent downfall of BP or what, but its annoying lol. I am a higher end provider and screening is for safety purposes. I will likely sit down and write a blog post about a few different subjects, one of them being screening and why its important.

Anyway, I am very much looking forward to the Christmas season and the new year. Come celebrate with me and treat yourself to some pampering and relaxation as a gift to yourself. You deserve it!

1 hour-----300
90 minutes----400
2 hours-----500


xxxo,
Emma

carolinagfe@gmail.com
803-459-4420

Happy Thanksgiving!

Hey Guys!

Happy Turkey Day! I will have availability this Friday 11/24 as well as Saturday 11/25. Come see me for some post-holiday relaxation while everyone else is out shopping! Send me an email at carolinagfe@gmail.com to schedule as I will be unable to return calls and texts until Friday. I look forward to seeing some of you soon!

xxxo,
Emma


carolinagfe@gmail.com
803-459-4420

1 hour----300
90 mins---400
2 hours---500

*Screening required for all new clients

New pics coming soon!

Some thoughts, some rants, some info...

Hey Guys,

Thanks for stopping by to read :-) I felt compelled to do a special post today about a couple of things. Those of you who have met me know that I am very professional in terms of scheduling and setting up appointments. I am extremely schedule-oriented and am at my best when I have a solid plan for the day. This is why I do not take same-day appointments. While I understand that many people are more spontaneous, that's just not my style when it comes to how I run my business. I have so many other responsibilities and life-roles outside of this aspect of my life, and I have found that the best way for me to manage all that I do is to schedule, schedule, schedule and have a concrete plan. Can I generally be a little flexible? Yes. However if a client has scheduled an appointment with me on a day where I have other responsibilities I always ensure that I have some buffer time scheduled in and make it known to my client that I have to leave at a certain time.

This has never been an issue until recently. Recently I had a potential client schedule an appointment with me for 11:45am. I offered this client a 10:45am appointment, but he opted for the 11:45. No problem. I provided the proper general location information so he could make plans to account for travel times and requested that he confirm with me later that evening, as is my usual process. He failed to confirm, but I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and would continue on as scheduled. I finally heard from him the morning of the appointment to confirm and everything seemed good to go for 11:45. He proceeded to text me within 45 mins of the appointment time indicating that he was leaving and would put my address into his gps and text back with an ETA. I had no idea where he was coming from, so I assumed he'd be on time and even told him it was fine if he got here early....I receive a text that says he will be to me by 12:05. At that time I told him 12:05 was okay, but I did need to be somewhere at 1:30 and would need to leave my studio a few minutes prior to 1pm. He responded asking if I would like to see him after I took care of my other responsibilities....This is where I get upset and annoyed.

First of all, this guy had all the information he needed to plan appropriately to get to me at the scheduled time. When he failed to be able to do that, I told him that 12:05 was fine but I'd need to leave a couple minutes early. He decided to take this to mean that I was going to "rush" him. Again, anyone who has seen me knows that I do not rush. I let him know that I would appreciate it if he would keep the appointment he scheduled, especially since I agreed to 12:05. At max his poor planning would have cost him 10 mins (5 from him being 20 minutes late, 5 from me needing to leave by 1pm). He sent another text inquiring about a time for rescheduling. I replied stating that because I felt that this had become too much of a hassle that I no longer wished to see him as a client at all. He then proceeded to ask me if I was serious because he'd driven an hour to see me. First of all, he hadn't driven an hour from the time he texted he was leaving and the time he told me his eta. If he had, there never would have been an issue at all! Second, its like he expected my whole afternoon to be available for him whenever he got around to getting here for a scheduled one-hour appointment. Not to mention, he was complaining that he'd driven an hour to see me and yet he was the one wanting to change the times and reschedule. He made no sense ultimately. He wanted his cake and to eat it, too. I attempted to explain that I did not want to see someone who was already making assumptions about being rushed when he was the one that was late due to poor planning. It would be a different story if this guy had run into a bad car accident or traffic jam; those things happen. He could have prevented being late by simply gps'ing my location hours prior to our appointment, but he decided to wait until the absolute last second. He wasn't even apologetic. He was a jerk about the whole thing. I'm sometimes astounded at the miserable attitudes of some hobbyists when this is supposed to be a fun escape from everyday life. I don't understand why they participate if they are seemingly, no matter what, always unhappy about something a provider says/does or doesn't do.

The moral of the story is that I am happy to see clients who respect my time as much as I respect theirs. I am not a strung out, low-end provider. I would much rather turn down a client who I am not comfortable with than see someone who is going to be a jerk about everything. I do this work because I enjoy providing feel-good vibes and positive energy, not because I want to be treated as a lesser being because I am being paid for my companionship. Yes, I fully recognize society's general viewpoint, but I would hope that at least some of you have some slightly more evolved thinking. Again, this has never ever been an issue prior to very recently, but since it did become an issue I decided that it warranted a post here. The intent is not to call anyone out (if I was going to do something stupid like that I probably wouldn't have purposely made "potential client" totally anonymous, ha), the message is simply to treat others with the same respect that you wish to be treated with. You're nice to me and you'll have the best time ever...you're a jerk to me in any form or fashion and I will happily never see you as a client. Thank you to all of my wonderful clients who all have the modicum of respect and professionalism with regard to your communications with me! You are the best a girl could ask for :-)

Now, on to some updates and info....

I do have limited availability through the end of 2017. Please feel free to contact me via email at carolinagfe@gmail.com to set something up! If you must use text/calling, please understand that due to all of my responsibilities I am not always able to have two phones on me without raising questions. My number is 803-459-4420. I will try to get back to you, but if you don't hear back within 2 hours I promise you can reach me via email :-) I will try to get some new photos up soon. Nothing has changed in my appearance since my last photos from August, but sometimes taking new pictures is fun!

TL;DR
When/if you contact me, please be professional and please be on time for your appointment! Treat everyone in the same way in which you'd like to be treated. I do have some availability through the end of the year and I will do my best to accommodate your appointment, so please send me an email (or text/call if you must ;-) New Pics coming soon! Body rubs always available!

300/hr

400/90 min

500/120 mins

carolinagfe@gmail.com
803-459-4420

*No Same-day appointments
*No Outcall Appointments

P.S. Reference requests may not be available at this time. Send me a message prior to using me as a reference please.